I was having a similar conversation with my 16 year old son on the way back from the game Saturday.
I dont know if it's an age thing with me and maybe being nostalgic but I just find football (most games, not just spurs) really really boring. Feels like something had changed these last few years with every team playing the same boring way, ref blowing for nothing fouls every minute, players wasting time, var etc.
I think back to the days when we were really brick (late 90's, early 2000's) and even then there were plenty of moments that got you out of your seat, something to get the crowd going. Would never have dreamt of missing a game then and would watch what ever games were live on sky. I dont even watch MOTD now