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Alright dudes.
Didn't want to post this but have been pretty low today and needed advice.
Basically I have been with my gf for just over 3 years now, she's 23 I'm 29.
first 2 years went awesome, she was a nymph, got on well, but we argued a lot especially when drunk (mostly my fault).
The last year we have got on but not had much sex and she kept on saying to me she will leave me etc if i don't change my maturity (immature apparently) stop being an attention seeker, and to man up and stop being a slob (sit at home in my pants when she comes home from work).
She is young and is trying for a career in media in the West End and is working lates all the time and we have not had much time in the evenings at all (I'm 9-30 to 5-40 and she is random) and at weekends now she's working a lot.
Last week she said she needed time to herself as she does not know what she wants. She tried to chat to me but i was having none of it and pushed her away and told her to leave my flat which i own. She has now moved home to her parents and says she still needs space but still loves me.
Its been a week now and I've seen her twice, once for a meal here and once when she popped in. Its been nice but its real hard for me at the mo as she has lived here for 2 years. Prior to that I lived on my own in my flat for 2 years so I am used to it but Im really lonely at the mo. Tonight I'm drinking on my own and been here all day doing nothing.
Have you lot had any bad breakups and if so have you ever got back with them? We have not officially broken up yet but I can only see this going one way yet I want to to make it work. Do I leave her and not text her and call her and make her feel she misses me? Anything I do won't change anything what is meant to be will be I suppose.
Just needed some advice as I have literally been on here all day and the closest I have come to civilisation is you guys.
Cheers
GGG
Didn't want to post this but have been pretty low today and needed advice.
Basically I have been with my gf for just over 3 years now, she's 23 I'm 29.
first 2 years went awesome, she was a nymph, got on well, but we argued a lot especially when drunk (mostly my fault).
The last year we have got on but not had much sex and she kept on saying to me she will leave me etc if i don't change my maturity (immature apparently) stop being an attention seeker, and to man up and stop being a slob (sit at home in my pants when she comes home from work).
She is young and is trying for a career in media in the West End and is working lates all the time and we have not had much time in the evenings at all (I'm 9-30 to 5-40 and she is random) and at weekends now she's working a lot.
Last week she said she needed time to herself as she does not know what she wants. She tried to chat to me but i was having none of it and pushed her away and told her to leave my flat which i own. She has now moved home to her parents and says she still needs space but still loves me.
Its been a week now and I've seen her twice, once for a meal here and once when she popped in. Its been nice but its real hard for me at the mo as she has lived here for 2 years. Prior to that I lived on my own in my flat for 2 years so I am used to it but Im really lonely at the mo. Tonight I'm drinking on my own and been here all day doing nothing.
Have you lot had any bad breakups and if so have you ever got back with them? We have not officially broken up yet but I can only see this going one way yet I want to to make it work. Do I leave her and not text her and call her and make her feel she misses me? Anything I do won't change anything what is meant to be will be I suppose.
Just needed some advice as I have literally been on here all day and the closest I have come to civilisation is you guys.
Cheers
GGG