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Relationships...f*ck em

K

Kingdawson

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So after 4 years with my other half we ended it this weekend. Naturally i'm a a bit sad but the overwhelming feeling i have is "what a waste of time". It's like i spent all this time with her for a large chunk of my life and there's nothing to show...no kids, no marriage.

Eventually i do think we'll end up getting married as it's inevitable (i've known her since primary school) but it's such a weird feeling now lol. Funny thing is that i've been talking to this girl who works in the Sainsburys near my work place who's half Egyptian and half English the last few days and it just feels kind wrong (my ex was half Moroccan and half English). Too many similarities man arghhh.

So anyway relationships...they SUCKKKKK.
 
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Hookers and coke party at your place then?

Seriously though, sorry to hear that. Better to make a clean break than to drag something on that wont work.
 
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someone else definitely involved.

you dont just break up after 4 years unless a) youve cheated on her.. b) you raped a family member.. c) you're beating her up .. i doubt you did any of those things, so she's probably done one. Lets just hope it isn't C.
 
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Mumorn said:
someone else definitely involved.

you dont just break up after 4 years unless a) youve cheated on her.. b) you raped a family member.. c) you're beating her up .. i doubt you did any of those things, so she's probably done one. Lets just hope it isn't C.
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I don't see why anyone else has to be involved. People can change over four years



Hope everything sorts itself out in the end KD.
 
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Spursalot said:
I don't see why anyone else has to be involved. People can change over four years



Hope everything sorts itself out in the end KD.
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bit strange though, 4 years is a long time to be in a relationship with someone only to just change.
 
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Mumorn said:
someone else definitely involved.

you dont just break up after 4 years unless a) youve cheated on her.. b) you raped a family member.. c) you're beating her up .. i doubt you did any of those things, so she's probably done one. Lets just hope it isn't C.
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Yep she's been seeing 'EdgeandChristian4life' from a wrestling forum behind my back, naturally i thought it was you.

TBH if anything i instigated the break up so i doubt it.
There's only so much times you can argue about absolutely nothing, eventually it becomes intolerable. There would be days where i'm at work and would literally pray she was either sleeping or not in when i got home. That shouldn't be how someone feels when you're in a relationship.
 
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Kingdawson said:
Yep she's been seeing 'EdgeandChristian4life' from a wrestling forum behind my back, naturally i thought it was you.

TBH if anything i instigated the break up so i doubt it.
There's only so much times you can argue about absolutely nothing, eventually it becomes intolerable. There would be days where i'm at work and would literally pray she was either sleeping or not in when i got home. That shouldn't be how someone feels when you're in a relationship.
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come to think of it.. half Moroccan you say?
 
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Does she do social media.. if she is sad then maybe its just one of them things.. grown apart, bored. If she is happy as larry jumping 6ft wooden fences then you can guess the rest.
 
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Kingdawson said:
Yep she's been seeing 'EdgeandChristian4life' from a wrestling forum behind my back, naturally i thought it was you.

TBH if anything i instigated the break up so i doubt it.
There's only so much times you can argue about absolutely nothing, eventually it becomes intolerable. There would be days where i'm at work and would literally pray she was either sleeping or not in when i got home. That shouldn't be how someone feels when you're in a relationship.
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If that's right then you're better off. As much as it might feel weird to come away with 'nothing to show for it,' it's better to do that now than stick together just for the sake of it and cause all sorts of grief down the track if you got married / had kids.
 
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