It's OK mate, you don't have one.
The ROOT of the AVB/Ade issue lies in AVB's first pre-season. Put simply, he was not ever AVB's first choice. Damiao was ahead of him in that queue. The financial side of the deal for Ade was agreed before Redknapp was canned. The question is ask is why AVB then agreed to Ade being signed. Desperation? Perhaps. But it was clear that Ade was not his first choice once the player was at the club. Not a great start. I actually thought AVB's man management had improved as he was managing to get Ade to play a role serving The Master (Bale). I suppose that comment is subjective, and depends on your perspective, but mine was always that AVB had him playing a role and not his natural position. All good. I took copious **** last season for defending Ade in this regard, but we all see things differently.
This augered well, IMV, for this season. Then came funeral leave. Whilst away, Ade was training to maintain/build fitness. He came back and was ****ed off the train with the ressies, with apparently very little explanation. Which is poor behaviour. And thus it spiraled out of hand.
I would suggest that in one of the crisis meetings they had, Levy asked AVB why Ade wasn't involved given the fact we could not manufacture a goal any longer, that senior players had pondered the same and that we were starting to ship them too. I repeat, he asked. Levy knows better than to directly try to pick players. I believe that AVB had already become disheartened for a variety of reasons, and that he had subsequently found his grip loosening on everything at the club as he retreated further into 'protection' status.
It became the straw that broke the camel's back, but it didn't ever have to be. Levy let AVB down with regards to getting signings he wanted, but he tried his best to support him in other ways and did not want to give up on him. But it was broken and all parties saw that.
What Ade did at St James Park is nothing less than he's been doing for a while, and for sure he is playing better than for a long long time. But that's because Sherwood can handle him, and more importantly, isn't afraid to make an exception to prompt a talent who the dressing room likes and appreciates. I think Ade is a player who wants to know he's liked and wants to enjoy his football. That's all. It's why I'd also disagree with Milo, and would personally sign him up ASAP.