• Dear Guest, Please note that adult content is not permitted on this forum. We have had our Google ads disabled at times due to some posts that were found from some time ago. Please do not post adult content and if you see any already on the forum, please report the post so that we can deal with it. Adult content is allowed in the glory hole - you will have to request permission to access it. Thanks, scara

Women...

WookieD said:
LOL! I was wondering when the first DHSF "I have a "friend" I really like but..." thread was going to appear on the new forum.
Click to expand...

We aint even friends. This girl and I reconnected after six months. We went out and talked a whole heap over christmas n new years etc but just suddenly switched on me. She told me she had been seeing someone else but chose me over him but I did a few things that tinkled her off. She had told me she liked me, I didnt reciprocate but I fudgein liked her a whole heap (I just didnt verbalise it I showed it to her by actually spending time with her n talking to her). SHe obviously got dettered by it and thats that she chose him over me (as appaarently her friends like him and he has potential ie marriage material Im assuming)

Its fudgein killin me cos she was a great girl and not seeing her again hurts (We have known each other for two and a bit years). Now she is like I still want us to hang out n talk etc but we are getting too close and dont wanna like you more than I should etc etc etc (fudgein flimflam bitch)

Her choosing him over me kills me, especially when I came back into her life and she had chosen to spend time with me over him.

I have been out with a brickload of women, im not even bragging, but none of them kept my attention like this girl did. It snot because I want what I cant have but although I wanted to fudge her a brickload I was happy in actually spending time with her.



RANT fudgeIN OVER. I am fudgein angry.
 
DHSF said:
I thought we should have a women thread - seeing as I fudgeIN HATE THEM.

Absolutely despise women.

They rip out a mans guts like no other. Shred his confidence to bits. Remove any self esteem he has.
Click to expand...


Its all a game. Act like you dont care and they will be as keen as anything for as long as you want, if you rely on them they will destroy you.

I know its crap, but ive had friends totally messed up by women, mainly because they based the majority of their life and interests on them.
 
spitshine said:
Its all a game. Act like you dont care and they will be as keen as anything for as long as you want, if you rely on them they will destroy you.

I know its crap, but ive had friends totally messed up by women, mainly because they based the majority of their life and interests on them.
Click to expand...

Thats what I did - read my post on here. I acted aloof - it pushed her away. There are some girls who want a bit of honesty I guess
 
Women don't want you to be totally aloof. If you are totally aloof they will feel hurt, perhaps need you more at first but then lose interest if your act continues.

What you need to do is mix it up, sometimes be aloof, others attentive, really get them scratching their heads as to why you act like you are. That way it maximises interest.

Last thing to add is always have that something shared between just you & her. Whether it's a tv show, a place or just a funny fictional scenario. That way, when she sees/thinks of that thing it evokes memories of you & brings you closer in her mind.

Sometimes patience is required, sometimes you need to act immediately. Oh and if you don't hear from her for a few days by text or call, don't jump for your phone..wait, if she's interested, you'll soon know, if not don't mug yourself off.
 
El Guepardo said:
Women don't want you to be totally aloof. If you are totally aloof they will feel hurt, perhaps need you more at first but then lose interest if your act continues.

What you need to do is mix it up, sometimes be aloof, others attentive, really get them scratching their heads as to why you act like you are. That way it maximises interest.

Last thing to add is always have that something shared between just you & her. Whether it's a tv show, a place or just a funny fictional scenario. That way, when she sees/thinks of that thing it evokes memories of you & brings you closer in her mind.

Sometimes patience is required, sometimes you need to act immediately. Oh and if you don't hear from her for a few days by text or call, don't jump for your phone..wait, if she's interested, you'll soon know, if not don't mug yourself off.
Click to expand...

I knew all that and know all that - I learnt that the difficult way five years ago. The thing is I didnt show her enough that I liked her - I didnt verbalise it. I showed her i liked her by spending time with her hanging out etc but never verbalised it when she asked. I taught myself not to say it as once you say it the interest drops - in this case the opposite happened.

One week - she loved my company and i was such an amazin person. The next im a horrible clam (she didnt say it but you know what i mean). In a fudgein instant.

But generally youre correct about all that stuffand generally it works but i guess sometimes, just sometimes, the girl wants no games but wants serious.
 
I cant complain at the mo.

Been banging a close work colleague for about 2 months now, i mentioned it in a thread last year. 8 yrs older but its so worth it

However a girl my age has just joined my work, and she is fiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit
 
El Guepardo said:
I don't understand women either, you can be the greatest guy about, trust me I'm one of those, and yet they don't want to know. You can have a sparkling rapport with them, have them laughing hard at your jokes and prove to them that you are both caring and supportive and you both happen to share a lot of same interests. You can be tall, good looking and have an excellent career in prospect with the potential of a lot of money coming your way and still... erm, NO!

What the fudge do they want? Why can't they see a good thing?
Click to expand...

Go to Thailand for a week
 
Last edited:
GLENROYID said:
I cant complain at the mo.

Been banging a close work colleague for about 2 months now, i mentioned it in a thread last year. 8 yrs older but its so worth it

However a girl my age has just joined my work, and she is fiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit
Click to expand...
Would be great to know how this one aged.

Work colleague #1 likely in her 50’s now.
 
My mrs has got the permanent hump with me lately
I literally cannot do one thing right, she is being a proper taco
 
nayenezgani said:
I can't imagine why? Hahaha. Seriously though ask her to talk about it, or just call her a fudging taco to her face.
Click to expand...
I have and she is having one of her regular meltdowns, probably not helped by the fact she hasn't had a brick for 10 days !!
 
Boiler is playing up so we've got an emergency repairman coming round, it's got to be fixed but we're meant to be going out at 3pm
It's my fault if I have to stay behind, obviously it is !!
 
Boiler is playing up so we've got an emergency repairman coming round, it's got to be fixed but we're meant to be going out at 3pm
It's my fault if I have to stay behind, obviously it is !!
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back