Now why is calling a person a clam less offensive than calling a black person a derogatory word?
The issue I have with questions such as this is that you are wholly disinterested in a discussion.
Your mind is set where it is. You are obviously aware that to many of us, it is an unpalatable one; all good, each to their own and we move on.
Except you want to continue to engage and poke and wind people up. No amount of counter-opinion or explanation is going to give you a moment of epiphany is it; be honest. So I can only conclude that -
A) you’re bored
B) you’re actively (and I mean ACTIVELY trolling)
C) you’re bored and a troll.
I could call you a clam. Based on this side of yourself which you offer, I’d feel perfectly comfortable doing so. But I don’t know you. For all I know, you could be one of the world’s great philanthropists who gives hundreds of thousands to homeless charities and various foreign aid organisations; which would, IMO, make you suddenly the opposite of a clam.
However, you only choose to present a single side of yourself here. I mean my friend, you have a choice. You could offer your opinion and then step back and move on. Instead you pick and poke and provoke and double down and triple down. You HAVE a choice.
Do you think a black kid has as big a choice? Before they even step out of the door, there are groups of people who are going to judge them on the colour of their skin based on a series of tropes and ignorances which mean that if they are wearing, say, a deep-hooded sweatshirt and baggy jeans in (let’s say) Shepherd’s Bush, they will immediately be judged by some people. In some cases, they run the risk of being insulted. Daily. Every day. It isn’t something they have a choice over. And one of the reasons for that is the disregard ‘people’ like you have for the harm language and stereotypes cause.
You also seem to enjoy moving goalposts. You raised the issue of anti-semitism. IF you want to discuss that, IMO you should be making it a seperate discussion, unless you lack the intellectual capacity to understand that it is possible to find racist language and behaviour abhorrent AND anti-semitism, and that isn’t a ‘pick one, fudge the other’ situation for most people.
So from where I am, you have a choice about how you present yourself here. And right now you do not appear to have an issue with racist language, especially when it involves black players. You see where this is going, right?
And if you only choose very specific angles, then inevitably, you will be judged on those.
It is YOUR choice, no-one elses…
P.S…the last time I posted something this long and of this nature to a (former it appears) member of this forum, the reply I got was filled with all this ‘lefty’ and ‘woke’ rubbish, which confirmed for me that they were not interested in conversation, only in disagreement and double-downing on their own (IMO) increasingly troubling mono-view of the world. There are MANY issues today; it is my view that you do not have to just ‘pick one’, you can see several (and in some cases, I would agree that ‘over-correction’ since the covid era has contributed to an upscaling of many issues). And FWIW, whenever at games (it has been this way for decades) if I hear someone use racist language, I call them out; loudly.