I'm very much bothered although I've found I get over the results quicker than I used to.
I have a family now and I simply can't sit around moping about Spurs' result the way I would have done years ago.
I get very hyped during the game and am often told to relax as 'it's only a game'

but usually an hour after a defeat I'm sort of over it.
I do still love a good win though and will watch highlights of special matches over and over.