So even though i don't have a offer on my place i can still put a offer in and ask for it to be taken of the market?
Yes. I think some estate agents will want proof/evidence your offer is serious and you can afford it, and making an offer subject to selling your own is common enough. But it's up to the seller to accept these terms, and if they don't then I'd politely and subtly let them know you'll keep looking. You can't do anything if they choose to keep the house on the market but if you get an offer on your place in four months time and the house is still there, you go back in a stronger position.
We sold our flat in November and bought our new house from friends. My wife said that "people buy from people" and so we did work quite hard to charm our buyer. Not that we pulled the wool over her eyes in anyway, just took the care to make sure she knew we were interested in her and wanted to sell to her.
Guess it can work the same way for you, if you havent got an offer accepted yet then tread carefully. Be careful about any brinksmanship and, when the offer is accepted I would get in touch with the sellers directly and say how much you are looking forward to dealing with them. Have solicitors info to swap too.... just use it as an excuse to make contact and show you want to work with them.
Get your place on the market ASAP; if it drags on then you have to be prepared to let the dream house go. But you never know, you could put it up for sale tomorrow morning and get a buyer by the evening. Keep your seller in the loop, don't lead them on, but let them know things are progressing. Our sellers were our mates and so we were confident they wouldn't drop us but to be fair, they had to be patient with us.
Personally, I don't like the sound of these bridging loans. Be patient, the right buyer is out there for you, as is the right purchase!
Good luck mate, hope it all goes well
