I'm 58.
Has nothing to do with the question.
In fact, the bold-face above is the crux of it. WHAT context do we view this group [OF PLAYERS} in in the future? THEY have shown qualities we have not shown in these situations for a very long time. Beyond the degree of luck you need -which we did NOT get in 2019 - I felt THIS group were determined to get the job done and I believed they would.
Does THIS experience become the context? Simple question.
p.s. regarding 2019...I went FULLY expecting to win. And had we not suffered that atrocious decision, I will always believe we'd have won.
I mentioned the age factor because I thought you had seen more than I had, which would explain the 'fears' and 'traumas' you mentioned.
I have to say, we're looking at this cup win from very different perspectives (which isn't saying mine is any better than yours, by the way). To be perfectly honest, I don't see anything special in this group of players. That win, for me, is a combination of favourable circumstances (meeting the right teams at the right times, giving priority to the Europa League...) and the players performing according to their abilities.
There was nothing outstanding, except for the final win itself. The only team we weren't expected to beat was Frankfurt - but that's something quite common in European competitions outside the Champions League. Just like we did for long, other clubs tend to focus on the league and suffer unexpected defeats in Europe.
We didn't get over the line in 2019, but outing Emirates Marketing Project and Ajax was, for instance, much more of a feat in my opinion.
As for this experience, I'm not sure it's as important as you think it is. Firstly, we've always considered ourselves a big club. We have huge expectations: Champions League football and trophies. If anything, this trophy only gives weight to the idea that we are somehow 'underperforming'.
Secondly, the huge cloud hanging over the club over the past few years - in my opinion - wasn't the lack of silverware, but suspicions of complacency from top to bottom. As far as I can recall, whenever a manager was sacked, people (myself included) have suspected the players were settling for second-best.
From that point of view, you could argue that we turned a corner on Wednesday night, but the very same players don't seem really bothered with the league position. You can't be a winner on Wednesdays and settle for 17th in the league on Saturdays...
Did one cup win change all that? I wouldn't bet my house on it... I sincerely hope the club can build on that but in all fairness, I don't think it has changed my outlook on the players, the club or anything really. It has made me very happy though and that's all that I could have asked for!