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Does anyone suffer from mental illness on here?

Discussion in 'Randomination' started by Danishfurniturelover, 24 Oct 2016.

  1. Danishfurniturelover

    Danishfurniturelover Les Ferdinand

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    Kelly catlin 23 year old Olympic silver medallist killed herself yesterday.


    Makes me really sad, can't believe it. All that future ahead of her.
     
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    Jordinho Clive Allen Staff Member

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    thfcsteff Andy Thompson Staff Member

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    What a load to bear mate.
    Yes, I think we can all relate to parts of your post for sure.
    The thing I found helps in such moments is to allow it to happen but make sure you recognize there is a light at the end of the tunnel. It will end. Something will change and life will move to another phase. Cancer's fudging horrible. The stuff with your missus sounds fudged too. Probably worth putting energy into the two things which bring you respite whilst knowing the other things will conclude at some point. Keep the waters as clear as possible; mum and kids. Rights and wrongs become arbitrary, and if someone is repeatedly wrong but screaming that they're right and you're not, in the end the truth will become clear. Don't let those things stop you from being you. Make sure you find a mate or two to have a mona/unload with as well.
    Good luck.
     
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    thfcsteff Andy Thompson Staff Member

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    I think this is bang on the money. One other thing I would say...whatever the temptation, don't speak ill of her to your kids. Keep it open. They will see for themselves in due course. Even if she twists things against you when speaking to them about you, continue to take the high ground and show them love and they will see it all for what it is when old enough. It is tough because you will want to tell them, but try and withhold/withdraw from that. Good luck.
     
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    markysimmo Johnny nice-tits

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    Just reading Muggy Mike (Love Island 2017) has been found dead from suicide

    Its really sad that people have to do this to themselves
     
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