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Does anyone suffer from mental illness on here?

Discussion in 'Randomination' started by Danishfurniturelover, 24 Oct 2016.

  1. monkeybarry

    monkeybarry Justin Edinburgh

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    Man, that's been a long few weeks.
    Just about up to 70% energy now and, inevitably, single.
    Established that emotionally we are really not compatible - she doesn't quite see it the same way. But when I have a depression episode and she takes it as a personal attack and when a family member has a stroke and her reaction to ask if we are still booking train tickets for Xmas (IE not asking how I am or anyone else).....I think that makes my mind up for me.

    Time to rebuild my confidence. Focus on my interests and hopefully someone that will complement my life.

    COYGG
    (No football in random ;) )
     
  2. Danishfurniturelover

    Danishfurniturelover Rafael Van Der Vaart

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    I'm in gambia at the moment on holiday.

    Makes you think when you see how poor some of these people are. Also makes you feel a little guilty as well. Mixture of emotions.
     
  3. monkeybarry

    monkeybarry Justin Edinburgh

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    Very true. I remember those feelings from Indonesia. Things we take for granted, like refrigeration and clean water.
     
  4. Daisuk

    Daisuk Paul Stalteri

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    Sounds like the right choice! Much kudos for daring to take it! A lot of people wouldn't have the guts! :) Onwards and upwards, mate - good luck in the time to come. :)
     
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  5. monkeybarry

    monkeybarry Justin Edinburgh

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    Thanks mate.
    I'm still in two minds about it because we get on so naturally.
    But I think life is about lessons, and I have just learned that emotional compatibility (probably along with morals/politics) are a deal breaker in relationships.
    The "entertainment" stuff is irrelevant if the other bits don't click.

    Also just found out one of my closest friends is moving to Europe for work for 6months. It's going to be an Interesting time for personal relationship development!
     
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  6. monkeybarry

    monkeybarry Justin Edinburgh

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    In case it helps anyone else who is struggling to be understood
    https://themighty.com/2017/12/toxic...medium=Facebook&utm_campaign=Link_Contributor
     
  7. nayimfromthehalfwayline

    nayimfromthehalfwayline Chris Perry

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    Sorry to hear if fell that way mate, but it sounds like its for the best.

    And it sounds like youre taking it as an opportunity, in itself a massive positive and one worth recognising. Well done, lets hope its the start of a really good period for you.
     
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  8. monkeybarry

    monkeybarry Justin Edinburgh

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    Cheers dude
     
  9. Daisuk

    Daisuk Paul Stalteri

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    Absolutely. My brother in law has just gotten out of a three year long relationship with a woman he had a lot of fun with and she was good when their relationship was good, but as soon something was a bit difficult, she always blamed him and refused to communicate about it. Very destructive in the long run, no matter how good things are when they are good. Being able to communicate when everything isn't rosy is key to get a relationship working. Sounds to me like you did the right thing. :)
     
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    parklane1 Dimitar Berbatov

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    Good for you mate i know it could not have been a easy decision. Tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your life, make sure its a good one.
     
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  11. Danishfurniturelover

    Danishfurniturelover Rafael Van Der Vaart

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    @monkeybarry get yourself out to Gambia son. Some of these Gambian women have absolutely stunning arses. Some real beauties.

    The is a Swedish mum and daughter that I'm looking at right now by the pool. Good GHod. Had to put the menu from the restaurant on my lap to hide my stiffy.

    fudging love how women wear next to nothing on holiday. Except the odd Irish lady next to me who has put on an African dress. Don't know why she always buys this crap when we go away and don't know why I married her.
     
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    LemonadeMoney Pat van den Hauwe

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    What about the trees?
     
  13. Hotshot-Tottenham

    Hotshot-Tottenham Young-Pyo Lee

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    How do you like it?

    Take a taxi to the White Horse at Batukunku if you a chance.

    Nice, secluded little hotel where you can have a coffee or a beer. There’s a small pool and you can have a lounger and chill.

    You can have a massage there too.
     
  14. LemonadeMoney

    LemonadeMoney Pat van den Hauwe

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    Spursman Goran Bunjevcevic

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    haha laughed out loud at the last bit.
     

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