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Rafael Van Der Vaart
So my ex girlfriends mum has been in hospital for the past few weeks - she was in hospital because of severe side effects from some medication she was taking.
I have found out from her new boyfriend (who texted me) that her mum passed away and the funeral is this tuesday. I have been speaking to her recently just checking up on her to see how she was doing (as she did tell me her mum was in hospital).
I obviously still have feelings for her and care for her deeply (the one girl who has ever kind of made me feel something for a girl) anyways - should I or should I not go?
I havent been in this position before where its either my needs or her needs that come first... so some advice would be of help. I do have some resentment that she didnt tell me herself and her boyfriend had to tell me etc I know its selfish but im brushing that aside so to speak.
I have found out from her new boyfriend (who texted me) that her mum passed away and the funeral is this tuesday. I have been speaking to her recently just checking up on her to see how she was doing (as she did tell me her mum was in hospital).
I obviously still have feelings for her and care for her deeply (the one girl who has ever kind of made me feel something for a girl) anyways - should I or should I not go?
I havent been in this position before where its either my needs or her needs that come first... so some advice would be of help. I do have some resentment that she didnt tell me herself and her boyfriend had to tell me etc I know its selfish but im brushing that aside so to speak.